When you know someone for many years, live together with them, and raise children together with this person, their betrayal hurts the most.
We think that if we’re with someone for a long time, then that person must not have any secrets from us. But we can tell that something’s going on, something isn’t right. Sometimes, however, our daily duties, caring for our children, obscure our vision and we don’t notice that people who used to love one another are growing apart. Sometimes people give in to a temporary pleasure that will ruin their current life.
Betrayal is painful in every case, because it’s a blow no one expects. Even if you haven’t exchanged vows in front of a notary or an altar, fidelity is important and obvious for many people, even in an unofficial relationship. However, there are partners who don’t recognize fidelity as a value and think that if they don’t get caught, then nothing happened.
Clary Akers was with her man for 9 years and they had two daughters. The girls were 6 and 2-years-old and when they learned that their parents were getting married they were extremely happy. Just like Clara. When Shaun – as Clara called him, proposed to her on Valentine’s Day in 2015, she got excited and began planning her wedding right away. Her daughters were supposed to be her bridesmaids; they selectde beautiful dresses to match their mother’s.
When she told her family about her wedding plans, it turned out that her brother was also planning to get married, so they decided to organize a double celebration. It turned out that together a total of 200 guests would make it to the reception, so they booked a huge hotel with a beautiful reception hall and two beautiful cakes.
Everything was ready, all that was left was just to wait for the big day and go to the bachelor and bachelorette party. And it was precisely this party that revealed the truth about Shaun’s behavior.